Objections from a Potential Hostess
As Independent Designers with Origami Owl® we are bound to run into a “no” more than once. But how can you overcome these objections and continue to book Jewelry Bars®?
It is important to remember that people will say no and that is okay. It is not a personal thing. It does not mean you are not doing your job correctly. Everyone faces no’s. Remember that more times than not, a no means a “not right now”. After all, we are all super busy and often have to say no to things we may love and really want to do! Do NOT be discouraged!
Below are some of the top reasons why people do not want to host a Jewelry Bar® and how to hopefully overcome their “no”!
“Money is tight!”
In reality, hosting a Jewelry Bar® truly will help save your hostess money. How awesome is it that she can host a little party with her friends and earn free and discounted jewelry that she can give away as gifts? No need to go shopping for Christmas or birthdays – it is already done!
Your hostess should not be concerned with the expenses related to “wining and dining” her guests. There is no need to provide an assortment of food and beverages… Less is really best! You can provide your hostess with quick, easy and cheap recipes or even better, offer to bring them yourself! Bring a beverage and an appetizer for your hostess that way she does not have to worry about that cost.
“I don’t have enough friends.”
Let your hostess know she is more than welcome to co-host her Jewelry Bar®. What a great way to share the product with even more people and get more rewards!
Or… Invite her to a party you are already hosting! Have her bring a girlfriend or two and they will both meet even more people there!
“It’s too much work!”
Offer to host the Jewelry Bar® at your house. This benefits you and the hostess. Not only does she not need to worry about the work involved, but there is no need for you, the Designer, to drive anywhere or pack up your inventory. Win win!
If she still wants to do it at her house, just tell her to clean the main room the guests will be in and one bathroom. No need to “spring clean” your entire house.
Grab coffee or go to a restaurant! How easy is that!? She invites all of her girlfriends to meet her for a coffee or for lunch (people gotta drink and eat right?) and you do the event there!
“It’s not worth it.”
Getting free and discounted jewelry is TOTALLY worth it! Your hostess will earn so many items for doing almost nothing. Make sure you tell her that you will be the one sending out invites, answering questions, etc. All she needs to do is provide you with some friends, a date and time!
“I don’t want to force people to come.”
No one should ever feel like they are being forced or pressured to come. It is your responsibility as a Designer to make everyone feel like it is truly a party! If they can’t make it that is totally a bummer! I usually send a little message that says “Hey _____! So sorry that you will not be able to make it. But the good news is that you can still check out the products online at (insert your website here)” or I would be happy to send you a Take-out Menu if you could send me your mailing address. Leave it at that.
“I don’t need anything.”
Do a Jewelry Bar® for a good cause. Donate everything the hostess gets for free to a friend in need, a random person, a fundraising event or even a women’s shelter. Although it is AWESOME to earn product for free, I think it’s even better learning other people’s stories, sharing the beautiful products and just having a good time with your friends.
“Who would I invite?”
Often potential hostesses may not want to have a Jewelry Bar® because all their friends are currently at the event or already have been to one. However I am sure that your hostess’ friends are still eye-balling something from the TOM that they did not already purchase. You can always ask, “Who would come to _________’s Jewelry Bar®?” or “Did everyone REALLLLYYY get EVERYTHING they wanted or are you looking forward to purchasing something else at _________’s Jewelry Bar®?”
“I am too busy!”
Being busy is totally understandable because let’s face it- everyone is! We are being pulled this way and pushed that way. Need to be here in 5 minutes and there in 10. We are all SO busy!
But how easy would it be to for a potential hostess to do a lunch time Jewelry Bar®? As the Designer you could go to their work room at their lunch break for a little show. Do something easy and simple such as “These five looks are my favorite because of XYZ” or “These items displayed are my best sellers!” Having a lunch time event is great because men will shop also for wives, girlfriends, sisters, moms, etc.
If a lunch time event is not an option, let your potential hostess understand that you know she is busy. Ask if you could follow up with her in X amount of time and set a date. She will be expecting to hear from you and does not need to worry about scheduling that into her calendar because you are going to follow up WITH HER.
“Uhhh not right now but maybe later?”
No problem! Set a date to follow up with your potential hostess and make sure you call her on that date!
More importantly, be patient. Good things come to those who wait right? Understand that some people just may stick to “no” and that is okay! Some people may not want to host an in home party and may feel more comfortable with a catalog or Facebook party. Always offer that up as an option!